Hi Olumna, You asked about tools for keeping the sexy bits fresh. There are two websites that I have found extremely useful — http://www.literotica.com is one, the Erotic Readers & Writers website is another. There are any number of these types of websites, however, these are the two that I refer to most often. Hope that helps a little. Sorry about the slow reply, I don’t check in very often — usually too busy!